How you do one thing is how you do everything.

This phrase has been so prevalent in my life for the last month.  I have just been so aware of all the little things that happen day to day.  I think this comment makes you think. If you are late for meetings consistently or you never pick up a check or you don’t compliment or tell people thank you, do you think you are the type of person that builds good relationships?  Are you the kind of person people like and are attracted too? 

If your habits reflect what I mentioned above, the answer is probably no. 

What I find fascinating in meeting so many people and coaching so many different kinds of personalities, is that when someone really has a pet peeve about others, I mean, something they seem to always rant about, it’s typically the one thing they like least about themselves.  In fact, the very issue they can’t seem to forgive themselves over is usually the one thing they won’t let others off the hook for either.

There is a great book called The Power of Now.  It’s about how to live your life in the right now.  It’s about how to focus on being present wherever you are, whenever you’re there.  I think the two concepts are tied closely together.  So many times we get caught up in past and the future… worry or regret…what should of happened or what could have happened. It is pure insanity to live your life this way. 

When you do this you aren’t focused on what you want. You aren’t even focused on who you care about and what you want for them.  You’re wasting your life! You’re wasting your gifts that you could share with the world!

When you make the decision to live in the now, everything you do gets better, which in turn, makes anything you want easier to make happen. 

Your brain makes connections at an infinite rate.  If you were to count them one per second, it would take 21 million years to count. In the brain, these connections happen in just minutes.  The problem is that your focus determines where this great power is directed.  If you ask yourself why the world has turned against you, it will give you smart reasons. Then permission is granted to continue to attract negative energy. What you focus on is what you want to happen. You will bring these things to you in a miracle-like way. 

How you do anything is a representation of what is going on in your head.  It is a reflection of the program you are playing in your brain.  GET IN THE NOW and make sure everything is being done to your fullest ability. 

You deserve abundance.  God equipped you with you a miracle between your ears. 

Now, go Be More and Serve More!